When I used to round the party circuit, I’d get people recognizing me from my grainy Daily Cal mug shot. They’d approach me, introduce themselves and then promptly engage me in a discussion of the proper blow job technique. The thing is, at parties I’m probably not in the state of mind to answer all of your sexual queries. Instead, the next time you’re liquored up and curious, shoot me an e-mail and I’ll read between the drunkese and feed your lust for knowledge. Observe:
Do you think Senator Larry Craig is actually gay?
- Restroom Hopeful
No, I believe he just likes to have sex with men.
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So I was talking about blowjobs today (you know, just one of those everyday topics). My friend asked, “Well, do you actually like giving one?” I answered with the most affirmative “yes.” I don’t understand why someone wouldn’t like giving head - it’s such a turn-on! (And if it isn’t, you’re probably doing it wrong, or your partner is gross. Just kidding. Maybe.)
We experience the best oral sex when the giver - not necessarily the receiver - gets more pleasure from this incredibly hot hot act. The givers, if they want to please their partners beyond belief, need to want to do it. It has to be a craving, a turn-on in itself. That’s not to say that those who aren’t that into giving are horrible at licking and sucking, but that it’s not as good as when someone with passion does the job.
Oral sex is important to an erotic/romantic relationship. For some, it is more pleasurable than regular sex (I’m talking penis-vagina, penis-ass, vagina-dildo, ass-dildo type of sex. Your “usual” penetration method). The act of getting all up in your partners’ business shows that you are comfortable with these people, enough to have your nose dangerously close to their poopers. You have to be willing to get really really intimate with some pretty private areas. And this brings me to some pointers designed to help you crave giving pleasure instead of receiving it. (more…)