Comments on: A Spanking Good Time http://carnalembrace.blogsome.com/2007/01/10/a-spanking-good-time/ ...is the practice of throwing one's arms around a side of beef Tue, 02 Dec 2008 13:05:35 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=1.5.1-alpha by: freddy http://carnalembrace.blogsome.com/2007/01/10/a-spanking-good-time/#comment-138 Tue, 16 Jan 2007 03:27:26 +0000 http://carnalembrace.blogsome.com/2007/01/10/a-spanking-good-time/#comment-138 Ohhh I love to be spanked. Especially laying across my lover's lap with my cock trapped between her thighs, her every stroke with the paddle spurring me on to slide against her clit. Or just in plain vanilla missionary position and her arms reaching down with the paddle to administer encouragement to my thrusting arse. I love to be spanked. Ohhh I love to be spanked. Especially laying across my lover’s lap with my cock trapped between her thighs, her every stroke with the paddle spurring me on to slide against her clit.
Or just in plain vanilla missionary position and her arms reaching down with the paddle to administer encouragement to my thrusting arse.
I love to be spanked.

]]> by: Sleepless http://carnalembrace.blogsome.com/2007/01/10/a-spanking-good-time/#comment-137 Mon, 15 Jan 2007 14:42:40 +0000 http://carnalembrace.blogsome.com/2007/01/10/a-spanking-good-time/#comment-137 You spank your platonic friends? You spank your platonic friends?

]]> by: natalie http://carnalembrace.blogsome.com/2007/01/10/a-spanking-good-time/#comment-136 Mon, 15 Jan 2007 12:44:47 +0000 http://carnalembrace.blogsome.com/2007/01/10/a-spanking-good-time/#comment-136 I agree Emiko. Calling your lover "daddy" is wrong. Yelling "daddy" during sex- even worse. I think it is degrading for a woman to call her lover that. For me it conjures up the image that the woman is the helpless, powerless child to an all-knowing all-powerful father figure.. just sick and twisted. Actually most lover name-calling is really a cheap way to try to be erotic. Most of it is fake and forced, which is not sexy. I definitely think that childhood spanking experiences affect your sexual life. I agree Emiko. Calling your lover “daddy” is wrong. Yelling “daddy” during sex- even worse. I think it is degrading for a woman to call her lover that. For me it conjures up the image that the woman is the helpless, powerless child to an all-knowing all-powerful father figure.. just sick and twisted. Actually most lover name-calling is really a cheap way to try to be erotic. Most of it is fake and forced, which is not sexy.

I definitely think that childhood spanking experiences affect your sexual life.

]]> by: Emiko http://carnalembrace.blogsome.com/2007/01/10/a-spanking-good-time/#comment-135 Sat, 13 Jan 2007 19:28:42 +0000 http://carnalembrace.blogsome.com/2007/01/10/a-spanking-good-time/#comment-135 Hahaha, I love and completely understand unspankable's opinion. Sorry that I find it so humorous, but it also makes a lot of sense. So three cheers to unspankable! One thing I never understood was the whole "Daddy" thing. In my opinion, it's really gross to call your lover Daddy, much less telling him to spank you in a sexual manner. And I have a feeling that the act of spanking from childhood is in fact related to the sexual craving for Daddy for some women. Is it due to the mentioned women's lack of affection from their father figures? Am I the only one who thinks it awkward for a woman to be fantasizing about a dad doing her? ~Emiko Hahaha, I love and completely understand unspankable’s opinion. Sorry that I find it so humorous, but it also makes a lot of sense. So three cheers to unspankable!

One thing I never understood was the whole “Daddy” thing. In my opinion, it’s really gross to call your lover Daddy, much less telling him to spank you in a sexual manner. And I have a feeling that the act of spanking from childhood is in fact related to the sexual craving for Daddy for some women.
Is it due to the mentioned women’s lack of affection from their father figures? Am I the only one who thinks it awkward for a woman to be fantasizing about a dad doing her?

~Emiko

]]> by: Administrator http://carnalembrace.blogsome.com/2007/01/10/a-spanking-good-time/#comment-134 Fri, 12 Jan 2007 02:31:49 +0000 http://carnalembrace.blogsome.com/2007/01/10/a-spanking-good-time/#comment-134 unspankable - I, too, was spanked as a child. I never enjoyed it then and it made me feel horrible, but now, in a sexual context, I demand it. I'm not sure there is a strong correlation there, though I may very well be an outlier. John - The best way is really just to go with it. If you're having sex from behind, you can start grabbing and squeezing her ass and then progress to spanking. Ask her if she wants it harder (this can be part of your dirty talk, too) and give the lady what she wants. The key, as always, is communication and, of course, an openness to experimentation. unspankable - I, too, was spanked as a child. I never enjoyed it then and it made me feel horrible, but now, in a sexual context, I demand it. I’m not sure there is a strong correlation there, though I may very well be an outlier.

John - The best way is really just to go with it. If you’re having sex from behind, you can start grabbing and squeezing her ass and then progress to spanking. Ask her if she wants it harder (this can be part of your dirty talk, too) and give the lady what she wants. The key, as always, is communication and, of course, an openness to experimentation.

]]> by: John http://carnalembrace.blogsome.com/2007/01/10/a-spanking-good-time/#comment-133 Thu, 11 Jan 2007 23:44:06 +0000 http://carnalembrace.blogsome.com/2007/01/10/a-spanking-good-time/#comment-133 I'm not a fan of sex and pain together. I know that their power combined is mighty, but it's just not my thing. However, I do like spanking/getting spanked as long as it isn't too hard. What's the best way of finding out your partner's um... "spanking threshold"? I’m not a fan of sex and pain together. I know that their power combined is mighty, but it’s just not my thing. However, I do like spanking/getting spanked as long as it isn’t too hard. What’s the best way of finding out your partner’s um… “spanking threshold”?

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